Today the concept in the TITLE has been reinforced in me by my dear wife. Today Feb 14th is the day of LOVE as is practiced in modern times. During breakfast we were just glancing at the TV in which one commercial about little kid's love to her father made me comment that "Little kids are so nice, if you just love them they will do any thing for you", to which my wife commented "Isn't that true for everyone?".
I immediately realized that it is. We have forgotten to LOVE people because of our own complexes and insecurities; as we feel that if we love others i.e. show our affection or love to them like what we do with children, they will make it mean this and that, it will look strange or bad or good or so and so. Because of all this we all hold back our love to others.
I kept thinking about this incident during the day, it reminded me of another saying of a friend of mine, "I buy people cheap; I just be NICE to them and they generally they do any thing for me." Although the comment sounded a bit funny in the beginning, but has truth in it. If we are nice to people (just love them), they will do any thing for us. I have totally experienced this in life. How TRUE and so simple, but human beings are such complicated beings, that we forget simplests truths of life so easily.
Later when we were having our 'Valentine Lunch', that is I and my wife, the two some, as kids had other plans, I saw a 2 or 3 year old girl having lunch with her family. She was all dressed in Indian clothes with typical Indian make up (bindi etc.) [although Mom was wearing western clothes] and enjoying her lunch with innocent questions about restaurant food to her parents. Seeing her I realized that why it is so easy to love little children and not teens and adults is because of their innocence and purity. We all know that whatever they are saying and doing is what they are thinking and they do not have any complexes or grudges against us. This thought in our mind makes us love them fully without expecting any thing in return. This makes our love to them also pure and genuine.
It would be so wonderful, if we remove our judgements, opinions and ideas about others and just love them for who they are. Well that's where my relationship mantra of FORGIVENESS, TRUST, LOVE & PATIENCE comes in to play.
LOVE to all.
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